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Managing Traumatic Stress Through Art

Have you ever experienced those therapy sessions where one simple phrase or question seems to blast a door wide open into the possibilities of individualized treatment that might actually work?  Well, it was not my own session that accomplished this. It was my husband’s session when he told our therapist that I like to doodle and be creative and my therapist had an idea that changed everything for me in terms of personal growth and development. My therapist gave me a means of expression and processing that I had given up hope for through a book by entitled Managing Traumatic Stress Through Art, by Barry M. Cohen, Mary-Michola Barnes, and Anita B. Rankin.

The book begins by explaining how a group of doctors came up with methods to safely work through trauma at home, though still under the care of a licensed physician. The best part is that these exercises DO NOT require any level of skill or expertise in art. Whether one can paint beautiful murals or is struggling with oddly constructed stick-figures, which is pretty much where I was before this book, is insignificant to completing the exercises. No skill level is required. Fascinatingly, within the introduction, the authors state how even the “medium” or tools used for producing art can aide in expression or hinder the process through re-traumatization. For people with anxiety, like myself, a lead pencil involves a level of resistance while paint may be too free-flowing. For intense emotions, using something with a greater resistance is particularly helpful, rather than a medium that just allows the emotions to out-pour without any form of control. I have found that I personally prefer oil-pastels and lead pencils.

There are three sections: (1) Developing Basic Tools for Managing Distress, (2) Managing Emotions and (3) Existing in the World. The authors recommend completing the first section in order, and then the other two sections can be completed in any order and can even be repeated because thought processes and circumstances can change over time. Each exercise includes an introduction to the topic, a list of required materials, questions for getting started, clear directions on how to complete the exercise, and questions for thought and analysis. The first section of this book has given me a list of tools I can use when the anxiety or depression hits (something I have craved desperately for a long time), and the other exercises have opened the door for many discussions in therapy.

Below is a list of exercises included in the art therapy book. I may never get through all of them, but for the ones I finish, links will be available below after completion:

Section 1: Developing Basic Tools for Managing Distress

  1. Establishing a Safe Place
  2. Drawing a Breath
  3. Protective Container
  4. Sensory Relief
  5. Support Net
  6. Comfort Box
  7. Paving the Way
  8. Getaway Guidebook
  9. Anatomy of Self-Care

Section 2: Acknowledging and Regulating Your Emotions

  1. Landscapes of Emotion
    1. Part One: Familiar Terrain
    2. Part Two: Changing Your Scenery
  2. Modifying Emotional Patterns
  3. Layered Feelings
  4. Mixture of Opposites
  5. Validating Anger
  6. Imprint of Fear
  7. Shame and Guilt
  8. Lost and Found
  9. Heart and Mind

Section 3: Being and Functioning in the World

  1. Self-Image
  2. Role Quilt
  3. Life Skills
    1. Part One: Barely Coping Mechanisms
    2. Part Two: A Well-Oiled Machine
  4. Environmental Protection
    1. Part One: Standing in the Present
    2. Part Two: Stepping into the Future
  5. Interpersonal Boundaries
    1. Part One: Barriers and Broken Boundaries
    2. Part Two: Building Better Boundaries
  6. Your Level Best
  7. Relationships
    1. Part One: Missed Connections
    2. Part Two: Within Your Grasp
  8. Worldview
    1. Part One: Two Different Worlds
    2. Part Two: Global Revision

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Top March 2019 Posts

In March 2019, the blog section of the spiritual abuse website had 8835 visits, with 5756 being unique. Below are the top ten read posts in March from four different authors. (I included 11 as my old article on the Jamaican Flight keeps staying in the top ten.)

Here are some of the words people used in search engines which led them to the blog: woman crying jesus on plane, upci minister article, abuse of speaking in tongues, requirements for licensure in united pentecostal church, lonnie treadway beaumont tx, pentecostal abuse, upci lawsuit bass, what are the by laws for a united pentecostal minister, humiliated shaming and idolatry of legalism.

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Woman ‘in the Spirit’ on a Jamaican Flight – author Lois (accessed 3135 times) Unfortunately, hundreds of people keep spreading this lie from October 2017.

Andrew Lee Jackson: Arkansas UPCI Youth Pastor Rape Conviction – author Lois (accessed 347 times)

The United Pentecostal Church and Sexual Abuse – author Lois (accessed 283 times)

Legalism is Idolatry – Flee From It – author DividingHisWord (accessed 162 times)

The Pharisees and Apostolics Part 1 – author Lois (accessed 151 times)

Why Oneness Pentecostals have Salvation Wrong (Acts 2:38) and you should Avoid It – author DividingHisWord

A UPC Church Responds To Sexual Abuse – author Lois

Harmed In The United Pentecostal Church – author Lois

When churches silence, part 4 – author Through Grace

Harshness in the name of Jesus – Video Blog – author Christina

Jason Hubacek: Texas United Pentecostal Sexual Abuse Case – author Lois

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Lessons from the Shepherd

I was reading my Bible one night before bed and the last thing I read was Psalm 23.  Now at times I’m a very vivid dreamer and I had a dream about Psalm 23.  It was a bit peculiar and different because in my dream it was like a classroom setting  and a man dressed like a shepherd was lecturing us…on Psalm 23.  The following is what I remember from the dream and I needed this the last few days as I went through a tragic event in my family.

“The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul; He leads me in the paths of righteousness For His name’s sake.”
He loves me, teaches me, leads me in his ways not man’s but His. He opens his word to me and feeds me and quenches my thirst and he gives me rest.
“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.”
It isn’t always physical death when I walk through that valley…although he has spared my life miraculously. He has also brought me through seasons of doubt and fear and anxiety. His word I have read and those words comfort me.
“You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;”
Even when he sits me at a table where I have to face my enemies but I will have no fear.
“You anoint my head with oil; My cup runs over.”
For my head has been anointed and my joy runs over. I know what my God can do. He’s been tested as have I and my faith is very strong.
“Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me All the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the LORD Forever.”
This is not necessarily heaven yet because I can dwell in his presence all the time. Heaven will be the icing on the cake!

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