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Giveaway: Unveiling Paul’s Women by Lucy Peppiatt

I apologize for not getting to our monthly giveaways that I intended to do earlier in the year. We had three so far in 2025, and I’m now trying to make up for not posting these earlier. There are going to be a number of them posted in a short amount of time.

This is only open to those with a USA mailing address. There is absolutely no cost to enter.

This is your chance to receive a new copy of Unveiling Paul’s Women: Making Sense of 1 Corinthians 11:2–16 by Lucy Peppiatt.

As many of our readers know, this section of 1 Corinthians has been used to teach that women must wear a head covering when in church, as well as that women must never cut their hair (as taught in the United Pentecostal Church). It’s also been used to teach that women are somewhat less than men.

I found it very interesting how Lucy Peppiatt puts forth the thought that in these passages Paul is repeating some things that the Corinthian believers had written to him. In other words, she believes that in verses 4-5 and 7-10, Paul was repeating what the Corinthians had previously shared with him. Verse 16 is then saying that there is no such custom of wearing head coverings.

We do know that Paul was responding to a letter he had received from this group of believers, so this thought is not unreasonable. We also know that the Corinthians were very messed up and carnal, and Paul had to correct them on numerous issues.

The author also covers various aspects and views on this section of scripture. I found her view of the passages to be plausible and that they made more sense that way. I don’t believe Paul was anti-women and have never liked when people attempt to portray Paul in a negative light. There are actually those who hate Paul, I believe due to a misunderstanding or misinterpretation of certain passages. Perhaps this book will help someone who feels this way.

This giveaway is a drawing. To enter, just leave a comment to show you wish to be included. The drawing will close on November 22, 2024 at 6pm eastern time, after which I will draw a winner.

Be sure to check back to see if you have won as in the past some people have not responded after winning and so a new winner had to be drawn. You will then need to email me your mailing address if I do not already have it, so be sure to watch your email and check the spam folder. If I know your Facebook profile, I will message you there.

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Why Has The United Pentecostal Manual Grown So Much In Size?

On September 18, 2025, United Pentecostal Church pastor Steve Waldron made a brief video comparing the size of the 1990 edition of the UPCI’s Manual and the 2024 edition. He shared that the 2024 edition was 309 pages and the 1990 was 136. As an added note, the 2025 edition has 319 pages.

He questioned why there was such a difference in size, wondering if it could be a change in the print size and mentioned there being more position papers and very little changes in the Articles of Faith. He also mentioned that a person doesn’t “ever want to see your walk with the Lord replaced by the rules of men.”

He shared how he preferred a hard copy of the Manual and that the UPCI used to send one every year to their ministers, but stopped that around about 15 years ago. If a minister wants a physical copy, they now must order and pay for one. Waldron mentioned that he is more prone to read it if he has a copy in his hands as compared to a digital copy.

I applaud him for reading all or part of the Manual each year as my guess is that the majority of UPCI ministers do not do this. I’ve known this from conversing with some of them, who were unaware of something mentioned in a Manual. For instance, I’ve heard their ministers erroneously claim that the UPCI is only a ministerial organization, when from their inception their Manuals have clearly stated otherwise at the beginning of their General Constitution.

The last hard copy of the Manual I have is from 2018 and it’s 215 pages. I also have the 1990 edition and it’s 143 pages. (Waldron gave the page number for when it ends, but didn’t include the mostly blank pages after that. If we do the same for 2018, it has 211.)

I recently was able to obtain the first UPCI Manual from when Howard Goss was the General Superintendent and it has 88 pages, though it ends at 86, and the dimensions are noticeably smaller. For awhile they used to combine the Manual and Directories into one publication and in the 1952 edition, which is very close to the dimensions of the first Manual, there were 248/246 pages.

So why is there such a difference between 86 pages in the beginning to 309 in 2024? (Almost 100 more pages from 2018 till 2024.) Part of the reason is because as time went on, more sections were included. They didn’t use to include their position papers and judicial procedure. Then they added the General Board Policies section, which brought more than 30 pages, and later added a section that includes resources for local churches, which added about 30 more pages. These four additions are positive ones.

Besides the above, as the UPCI has grown, they have added departments and positions and this requires changes to the Manual that spell out the purpose, officers and their duties and qualifications, finances and more. In addition to this, every year there are changes to the Manual. Sometimes sections are removed or clarified and others are added. These often come from resolutions which are voted upon at General Conference.

The Manual also underwent a much needed revision in recent years, though I’m unsure how this impacted the size.

If you wish to watch Steve Waldron’s video, go here.

Podcasts: An Avenue to Share My Story

As I am now working part-time and transitioning toward retirement, I had a recent conversation withe my parents. My dad suggested I take my previous training in radio-TV communication and use it to enter the podcast arena.

I originally had a YouTube channel from 2011 to 2013. I posted nearly 300 short videos only to take them down after some of my topics, which were highly political in nature, drew attention from government entities and I had to shut down the channel. Earlier this year I revived my channel and am taking a more measured approach. My podcasts are more personal in nature and less political; I also realized I am able to share my story of how I came out of an abusive church.

Here are some recent links to my YouTube videos, which are also on Rumble for those who follow that service.

Why I’m a Former Minister

Cumpulsory Tithing

Military Outreach

Harassing People in God’s Name on Military Bases (Available on YouTube only)

Modesty/Dress Codes for Men

This new venture has been very interesting. I have been able to speak to other content creators, some of whom also are survivors of spiritual abuse. Networking like this is a good avenue to share and help each other heal, which is a good thing.

I know this is a short blog entry, but the podcasts should be helpful for anyone who visits.

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United Pentecostal Pastor Audley Castro Resigns Part 3

This is a continuation of our coverage on United Pentecostal Church minister Audley F. Castro, who was the long-term pastor of the Apostolic Pentecostal Church Of Pickering (APC) in Ontario, a legally affiliated UPCI church. It appears to be one of the largest UPCI churches in Ontario. (See Part One and Part Two.) Audley Castro resigned on July 9, 2025 amidst allegations of sexual misconduct allegedly spanning years.

This is the second part of our July 23 post where we shared two letters that had been released by the church in late 2021. In one letter it was stated that, “Between August 14, 2021 and November 7, 2021, former members of our congregation published a series of videos on YouTube making several statements about the Apostolic Pentecostal Church of Pickering (‘APC’) and Reverend Audley Castro (‘Rev. Castro’).”

Looking for the videos on YouTube brought up nothing and it was subsequently learned that they were removed due to a court order. However, they are still available on Rumble at The House of Prayer’s channel, which started on January 12, 2021. Four of their eleven videos address Audley Castro and the Apostolic Pentecostal Church of Pickering.

The first video, released on August 14, 2021 and lasting just one minute and 42 seconds, has no sound and is simply written statements accusing Audley Castro of adultery. Dean Delpeache, a former UPCI minister, is listed under the video. His name is seen under all four. Joel Woodburn is the one bringing the accusations, though this isn’t disclosed until the final video.

It alleged that, “Many ministers and leaders at APC are also involved in this adulterous and other wicked sexual activity who God will shortly expose.”

Continuing on, they name one of Castro’s alleged “partners” and shares she was 55 years old and pregnant, claiming it happened ten years after menopause, which is a wild claim, something which is not possible except potentially through IVF. They end with some additional claims regarding the mark of the beast.

The second video from August 16, 2021 is shorter than the first and again has no sound. Here it is stated that the adultery mentioned in the first video was with a minister’s wife, meaning Joel Woodburn.

The third is undated, even shorter and again has no sound. It stated that “As a public confession or denial was not given after I released this information on August 14, 2021, I am disclosing additional information to further clarify the truth.” It is then alleged that the woman is this person’s ex-wife and that the baby was aborted.

The fourth, released on November 7, 2021, is 14 minutes long, and there is finally sound and we see Joel Woodburn’s daughter, Rachel, narrating it. The names of Arnold MacLauchlan and David Bernard are shared underneath the video. Rachel states her family served in the church for almost a decade and that she had a series of dreams showing her that God is going to take down the church. She says to ask God to show you in a dream that these accusations are true. There are some other wild claims.

Returning to the letters released by the church, they also claimed, “At this time, the Board is seeking legal counsel about the best path forward.”

What many members of the Apostolic Pentecostal Church Of Pickering may not know is that a lawsuit was filed on April 5, 2022 by the church and Audley Castro against Joel and Rachel Woodburn. This was case CV2200679382000 in Ontario. They were suing for $165,000 and were represented by Gwendolyn Adrian.

Joel and Rachel Woodburn did not respond to the lawsuit, so a default judgement was entered against them in 2023. Because of this, as evidence was not presented in the case, it is unknown what accusations in the videos, if any, were true. As far as the Court is concerned, it was all defamation.

According to a court document posted by the attorney, Audley Castro was awarded $60,000 and the church $15,000. In addition, $13,130 was awarded for partial indemnity fees and disbursements. Whether Castro or APC received any money is unknown. Some may be unaware that when money is awarded in a lawsuit, it does not mean it will be able to be collected. Some have to go through a separate process to see if a defendant’s wages can be garnished, which can be an ongoing difficulty, and there are times that a plaintiff never receives anything.

The judge stated that the awards were on a joint and several basis, which means that both Joel and Rachel Woodburn are fully responsible for the entire debt. This allows the a plaintiffs to collect the full amount from any one of the parties.

I will mention that sometimes churches and ministers will file a lawsuit in an attempt to silence someone who speaks out about them. I have seen this happen. Here in the USA, some states have anti-SLAPP laws that protect individuals from SLAPPs (Strategic Lawsuits Against Public Participation). Those laws can shut down frivolous and silencing lawsuits and that can be very costly for a plaintiff as they could be liable for the attorney fees of any defendants.

Attached are some screenshots from the lawsuit, a document which was posted on LinkedIn by the attorney, and two screenshots from the church’s Facebook Page showing that Joel Woodburn was an important part of the church for years.

More will be shared in the future in regard to the member only meeting that was held at the church on July 14, 2025.

I originally posted about this on August 22, 2025 on our Facebook Page.

You will find a complete list of articles in this series by clicking here.

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Galatians Study Part 15: 4:28-5:6

Galatians Study Part Fifteen: 4:28-5:6

NLT: “And you, dear brothers and sisters, are children of the promise, just like Isaac. 29 But you are now being persecuted by those who want you to keep the law, just as Ishmael, the child born by human effort, persecuted Isaac, the child born by the power of the Spirit.

“30 But what do the Scriptures say about that? “Get rid of the slave and her son, for the son of the slave woman will not share the inheritance with the free woman’s son.” 31 So, dear brothers and sisters, we are not children of the slave woman; we are children of the free woman.

“5 So Christ has truly set us free. Now make sure that you stay free, and don’t get tied up again in slavery to the law.

“2 Listen! I, Paul, tell you this: If you are counting on circumcision to make you right with God, then Christ will be of no benefit to you. 3 I’ll say it again. If you are trying to find favor with God by being circumcised, you must obey every regulation in the whole law of Moses. 4 For if you are trying to make yourselves right with God by keeping the law, you have been cut off from Christ! You have fallen away from God’s grace.

“5 But we who live by the Spirit eagerly wait to receive by faith the righteousness God has promised to us. 6 For when we place our faith in Christ Jesus, there is no benefit in being circumcised or being uncircumcised. What is important is faith expressing itself in love.”

NASB: “And you brethren, like Isaac, are children of promise. 29 But as at that time he who was born according to the flesh persecuted him who was born according to the Spirit, so it is now also. 30 But what does the Scripture say?

“Cast out the bondwoman and her son,For the son of the bondwoman shall not be an heir with the son of the free woman.”

“31 So then, brethren, we are not children of a bondwoman, but of the free woman.

“5 It was for freedom that Christ set us free; therefore keep standing firm and do not be subject again to a yoke of slavery. 2 Behold I, Paul, say to you that if you receive circumcision, Christ will be of no benefit to you. 3 And I testify again to every man who receives circumcision, that he is under obligation to keep the whole Law. 4 You have been severed from Christ, you who are seeking to be justified by law; you have fallen from grace. 5 For we through the Spirit, by faith, are waiting for the hope of righteousness. 6 For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision means anything, but faith working through love.”

Paul continues to nail down the seriousness of the issue. Those who believe in Jesus are children of promise, of a free woman. As there was persecution from Ishmael to Isaac, there will be persecution from those yet in slavery to believers who are free.

Believers need to stand firm in the freedom that Christ Jesus has given them. They should not return to slavery. Whether it is a return to the law or to man-made rules, it is walking away from freedom in Christ and into slavery. Not only that, but Paul states that if we seek to be justified by the law, we have both fallen from grace and severed ourselves from Christ. Think again if you believe that trusting in following rules doesn’t matter (“better to be safe than sorry“).

Remember what Paul shared earlier, that the law is not of faith. When we turn to following the law, or any other set of rules, our walk is no longer by faith as we are seeking to be justified by the things we do.

Our entire walk with God is by faith. It isn’t about our works making us, or keeping us, right with God. It is about faith in the completed work of Jesus, that we may be justified through faith in him.

The last verse in this segment says, “For in Christ Jesus neither circumcision nor uncircumcision means anything, but faith working through love.” Jumping ahead to Galatians 6:15, it states, “For neither is circumcision anything, nor uncircumcision, but a new creation.” 2 Corinthians 5:17 proclaims that if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation. It doesn’t matter if one is circumcised or uncircumcised, Jew or Greek, male or female, slave or free (Galatians 3:28)–we are one in Christ–a new creation and what matters is our faith working through love. Period. That is the only thing that counts.

Which will you choose? Will you follow laws and rules and fall from grace, becoming enslaved, or will you through faith stand firm in your freedom and be justified by faith in Christ Jesus?

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